About me

About Chase

I decided to revisit this about page because when I first started the blog, I sort of just hurriedly threw some words on the page. It seems many people view this page, so I thought I should take another stab at it.

A few facts about me…

  • I’m a middle-aged cis male
  • You can call me Chaste, my nom de guerre here, or JK if you wish
  • I’m divorced, not in a relationship at the moment, and not looking to get into one after my last one
  • I’m straight, not that it is a big deal, it’s just how I’m wired, and I’m attracted to adult women, especially assertive ones
  • I have grown children
  • I can be strong-willed, and when I first got involved in BDSM years ago, I was a Dom, but have mellowed since
  • I live in the South, but closer to the Southwest than the deep South
  • Writing, long-distance running, and travel are my passions
  • My favorite places in the world are the Flagstaff, Arizona area (where I have lived previously) and New Zealand (where I’ve often visited and have many close friends)
  • I’m apolitical and quickly lose interest in people who can’t shut the fuck up about politics
  • I’m a Notre Dame fan – Go Irish!
  • While I’d heard of chastity devices before then, I first became interested in trying male chastity after reading a fascinating Tumblr blog about it

Okay, I’ve probably bored you with enough of that.

I started this blog to chronicle my journey in male chastity. Then I decided to start writing posts about the chaste life from different angles and reviewing a few chastity devices I’ve tried.

In addition to the orgasm denial aspect, I enjoy enforced chastity and often turn to a professional key holder I’ve become acquainted with to help with that. I like writing about chastity and kink in general. I also enjoy writing science fiction and dark fantasy fiction.

If you read this far, thank you. I’m flattered you wanted to know more about me. I’m happy to hear from blog visitors and to try to answer any questions people new to male chastity have. If I don’t know the answer to a question, I’ll do my best to find the answer. Please feel free to reach out. There is a contact page here on the site, but it seems it isn’t terrifically reliable. You can also email me: jkspenser at gmail dot com or send me a DM on Twitter.