Month: February 2022

Are You Struggling to Find a Remote Chastity Keyholder? This Might Be Your Solution

I’ve often wondered why some chastity device manufacturer or retailer hasn’t launched a simple, inexpensive remote chastity keyholder service. With growing numbers of single guys sliding into male chastity, it seems a no-brainer way of driving device sales. But, wait. It looks like one company has done just that.

The problem for many single guys interested in practicing male chastity is the difficulty of finding a chastity keyholder. Finding a remote chastity keyholder to enforce your chastity via the internet is an option. But that isn’t always exactly easy to arrange either. And it can be expensive. But one BDSM/sex toy company, Oxy Shop, has stepped up to the plate and now offers a simple, inexpensive chastity keyholding service like the one I’ve always envisioned. Are you struggling to find a remote chastity keyholder? This might be your solution.

Sure You Can Practice Self-Locking Chastity, But...

I’ve spent far more time self-locked than time in chastity with a keyholder. This works for me because the mental and psychological benefits of the male chastity lifestyle are what I find most appealing. And you can gain those benefits just as readily when you self-lock as you do having a keyholder enforcing your chastity. But I know from experience that chastity is far more intense and meaningful on so many levels when someone else holds the key to your locked device.

One reason is that having a keyholder is the only way to experience the control aspect of chastity that so many of us crave. So, whenever I’ve felt my motivation lagging, as a single guy, I’ve always turned to a Pro Domme for keyholding services for a month or three to help get me back on track.

I’ve always believed that having a partner you’re in an intimate relationship with as your keyholder is the best way to get all that male chastity offers. Yet having a pro as a remote chastity keyholder is a close second for men who don’t have a partner. I’ve always been very pleased with the professionals I’ve used. The woman who remotely enforced my chastity during the 2022 month-long version of International Male Chastity Day was one of the best keyholders I’ve had thus far.

The downside of engaging a Pro Domme for keyholding is that their services don’t come cheap. And I’m not arguing that they should. These women are knowledgeable professionals with a set of specialized skills. It must also be said that the services of Pro Dommes are a luxury, and luxuries are typically expensive. So, while I’ve never begrudged paying a professional for her services, not every single chaste male can afford to pay for professional keyholding.

I know Professional Dommes that charge as much as $450 per month for keyholding. But I’ve never paid anything near that amount. With a little homework, you can find professionals willing to hold your keys for $100 per month, and sometimes for less than that. But here we’re talking basic services. No teasing activities are usually involved. They lock you, require periodic proof that you’re staying locked until you complete the agreed-upon period, and that’s it. Yet even $100 per month for basic keyholding might not be in the budget of every guy who wants a keyholder. But what if you could find a Mistress willing to hold your keys for only $35 per month, $95 for three months, or only $200 for six full months? Oxy Shop, a BDSM/sex toy retailer that does business worldwide, offers such a service. It’s done remotely via the internet, and Mistress Elena manages chastity enforcement, a Professional Domme the company has engaged to manage the service.

The Oxy Shop Chastity Keyholder Service

Before delving into the actual service they offer, it bears mentioning why Oxy Shop seems perfectly positioned to offer an online remote chastity keyholder service. As the company says on the website, most adult toy retailers primarily market their products to women. I suppose this makes sense since I’ve seen many surveys that say women are more likely to use sex toys than men. But Oxy Shop is not your average sex toy retailer. According to the website, they focus on products for submissive males—from chastity cages to the most extreme CBT devices. And the company offers a wide range of other products for men beyond that.

I discovered Oxy Shop while looking for a chastity key safe secured with a plastic lock. I’ve acquired several devices that have integral locks instead of padlocks. Unfortunately, they don’t work with plastic locks for remote keyholding, so I needed a way to secure the keys instead so a remote keyholder can feel confident I can’t remove a chastity cage without her knowledge. That’s when I stumbled upon the company’s remote chastity keyholder service.

Using the service is simple. First, you purchase the service here at https://oxy-shop.com/products/monthly-chastity-keyholder-service after selecting your preferred period—one, three, or six months. Next, Oxy Shop posts their chastity keyholder service set to you, including twenty numbered plastic locks and a key container to use with the locks. The set is free with your first paid month of the keyholding service. The key container and plastic locks allow you to use either a device that has an integral lock or a padlock.

Once you receive the chastity keyholder service set, you must email the company at tasks@oxy-shop.com once you are ready to start. Then Mistress Elena enforces and monitors your chastity. She will inform you when to lock yourself and later when to unlock. Mistress Elena will require “proof of lock” images periodically. As a bonus, she will send you a monthly kinky task to perform. All communication is by email.

With only one task per month, there isn’t a lot of teasing provided with the service. But you will experience the control and enjoy the uncertainty of not knowing when your keyholder will set you free or allow you release.

It sounds like a bargain to me. So much so that I’ve already purchased a trial month of the keyholding service for a test drive. I’m waiting for the keyholder service set to arrive and hopefully will be ready to start March 1. At the end of the month, I’ll post a review with the details of my experience.

Disclaimer

I am not an Oxy Shop affiliate and have no connection with the company beyond being a paying customer. Since I haven’t yet tried the online keyholding service, this post is not an endorsement of the service or any recommendation to try it. Once I have tried the service, I’ll post a complete review, including my opinions and recommendations. Like all the chastity devices I review, I purchased the service using my own funds so that readers can feel confident the forthcoming review will represent my honest, unbiased opinions.

Have you already tried the Oxy Shop online remote chastity keyholder service? If so, feel free to post your experience with the service in a comment for the benefit of other readers.

International Male Chastity Day 30-day Adventures

Today, February 14, marks the end of the 30-day version of International Male Chastity Day. How did you do?

Yes, the actual International Male Chastity Day is tomorrow, February 15. But if like me, you agreed to do the International Male Chastity Day 30-day extended cut that began January 14, we have finally reached Valentine’s Day. My keyholder released me this morning, but as Mistresses are prone to do, allowed only a ruined orgasm. But I’m okay with it. A normal one would have dissipated all that hard-won sexual tension and frustration. So, I’m not starting over at ground zero.

While I’ve spent far longer than thirty days locked in the past, my habit is to remove my device for a few minutes once a week for proper cleaning. So, this International Male Chastity Day adventure was my first experience with being locked continuously for a full month. It was an interesting experience, and my keyholder ensured it was meaningful.

Back to Self-Locked

After about a two-hour respite, I’m locked again in a different device. Today, I am beginning my wear test of the Rigid Modular Chastity Device Model 01 knock-off I ordered from an eBay seller. It showed up in my mailbox last week. Expect a review in a couple of weeks. But here are my initial impressions.

It came as no surprise that the knock-off device doesn’t have the same brilliant shine as the original Rigid device. That confirms my suspicions that the knock-off manufacturer scraped the images used on eBay from the Rigid website. But the luster is shinier than expected and definitely not the dull finish of most stainless steel devices made in China. I’m also impressed with the quality of workmanship. While not up to Rigid Chastity standards, the quality is surprisingly good for the price. The knock-off is also a dead ringer for the original article as far as appearance.

The device feels comfortable and not overly heavy as far as stainless steel devices go. It fits well, although the length of the cage is about a half-inch longer than I need. Unlike Rigid and their original device, the knock-off manufacturer doesn’t offer this modular device without the PA hook. And the design doesn’t allow for using the device without the s-hook component. I was curious how wearing a device with an s-hook inside the cage would feel since I have no PA and have never worn a device with an internal hook. But it’s a non-issue. I can’t feel the hook at all.

I’ll post a full review after completing the wear test. In other news, I also received two other devices during the past month I ordered. So, more tests and more reviews to follow.

The Device

Model 01 Modular Device Knock-Off
Four Components
Device Doing Its Thing