“The reports of my death are greatly exaggerated.” – Mark Twain
Sorry I haven’t posted in a while. The year started with a bang, but fizzled. I was ill in February, but fully recovered now. The thing is with the illness and for a long while afterward because of some other factors, I just lost complete interest in chastity. I unlocked and didn’t bother updating the blog or my status for months. But finally the familiar urge has returned and I’m back in chastity with a new key holder. We’ve only just started, but I’m feeling cautiously optimistic after disastrous experiences with the previous two keyholders. Sincere thanks to all the regulars here who contacted me to check on my welfare.
I’ve made a couple of changes since returning. First, I’ve completely restarted the My Current Status page. Once I regained my interest in wearing a device, I self-locked on and off while looking for a new key holder. But I didn’t keep track of the time locked and unlocked and honestly don’t recall the date I unlocked in February. So, I’ve deleted all the old data and started with a clean slate as of today.
The second change is I have removed the former Contact Me page. I really hated doing that because I love hearing from those who enjoy following the blog and getting your questions. But the proliferation of spammers on the Internet has just gotten out of control and no matter how I tried to filter it, 99-percent of the messages hitting my mailbox were spam, which made it all but impossible to find legitimate messages and questions. I apologize this step became necessary, but I just don’t have the time to review hundreds of emails from spammers to find a handful from readers with questions and comments. Sometimes I wasn’t able to check my email for a day or three and I’d literally have 800 to 900 emails, the vast majority of it junk. I’m going to look into finding an effective, better filtered contact system. If I do, then I’ll put the Contact Me page back up.
Not much to share about my new key holder yet. We’ve only just started today after chatting the last few days and working out our mutual expectations. I’m approaching engaging a new key holder with a lot more caution because of the previous two bad experiences. For now, we’ve only agreed to a one-week trial. If it turns out mutually satisfying, we’ll then discuss how to proceed from there.
As you already know if you follow the blog regularly, I prefer professional key holders and I’m happy to compensate them fairly for their time and services. But I also expect them to keep their promises and that didn’t happen with the previous two.
I did meet this key holder a few days ago on a video call, who will be known as Mistress Lindsey for the purposes of the blog. She’s a very attractive brunette in her mid-thirties, and a Pro Domme who lives in the UK. She impressed me as being legitimately dominant, intelligent, and experienced with chastity. Today we had our our first session after the lockup and the experience actually exceeded my expectations. We’ll see how it goes and I’ll share more as things develop.
In the next post, I’ll share a review of the Chaster app, which I played around with a little recently. There are plenty of things I liked about it, especially the availability of key holders for guys like me who, by choice or circumstances, rely on online key holders. But I also found plenty of things I don’t like about the app. So tune in next time if you want to learn more about the Chaster app.