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Cut to the Chaste

Welcome to Cut to the Chaste, my online journal where I chronicle my exploration of enforced male chastity. I’m your host. You may call me Chaste, and this is my very first post.

For the uninitiated who may have landed here out of curiosity, simply put, enforced male chastity is a practice where a male voluntarily submits to having his penis confined in some sort of chastity device. Once he is “locked up,” another person, known as the key holder, assumes ownership of his penis and complete control over its availability for sexual activity of any kind. The device may be removed only with the permission and at the expressed direction of the key holder. That of course means the guy is subjected to orgasm control or even outright orgasm denial for whatever period of time the key holder deems appropriate.

I can imagine there must be someone reading this is wondering why any man would want to subject himself to enforced chastity. The truth is, like many things in life, enforced male chastity is not as simple as it seems. The reasons why someone would desire to be locked up in a chastity device are likely as varied as the men who choose to do it. I’m not qualified to explain why others desire to experience enforced chastity, and to be frank I’m still trying to suss out my own attraction to experiencing it. That is a big part of the reason why I’m embarking on this journey of exploration and self discovery.

The practice of enforced male chastity is actually far more common than you might imagine. Also, it isn’t only kinky people who practice it. In recent years it has become quite common in committed relationships between partners who otherwise practice “vanilla” intimacy. Part of the reason for this may simply be the fact that the availability of male chastity devices has literally exploded in recent times. Once choices were few and costs were very high. Now the options are quite mind boggling.

When it comes to male chastity devices, there are two basic options. Chastity belts and chastity tubes, sometimes called cages. I’ve chosen to go with a cage device. The device is composed of two primary parts. There is the tube or cage the flaccid penis is inserted in and a ring which encircles the base of the penis and goes behind the scrotum entrapping the testicles. Once the penis is inserted in the tube, the tube is mated to the ring and secured with a locking device. In the next post, I’ll share more about the specific device I’ve chosen and why.

Ideally, in my opinion, the best choice for a key holder is someone you are already having an intimate relationship with. Sadly, in my case that wasn’t an option as I’m between partners at the moment. So, I had to seek out someone willing to act as my key holder. The best option seemed to be someone who offers key holding services on a “pay-to-play” basis.

After some due diligence research, I contacted a dominant woman I felt comfortable with who is willing to provide me the service I need in return for me showing my respect and appreciation for her by offering tribute (a fee). I’m quite happy with the arrangement as this woman, we’ll call her Lady Jayne, seems very experienced, straightforward, and someone I’ll come to trust. The more contact I have with Lady Jayne, the more confident I am that she is the perfect person to act as my key holder at this stage of my exploration. If you continue visiting here and reading my posts, you will learn more about Lady Jayne as time goes on.

At the time of this post, I’m not yet locked up. While the arrangement with Lady Jayne has been finalized, I am still awaiting delivery of the chastity device I ordered. Hopefully, it will arrive by week’s end and we will be able to get started. As a complete novice, I am excited about all this, but a bit nervous too. But, soon we’ll see how things go with it.

I hope you will return here to read the next post when I’ll share a little about the specific device I’ll be locked up in and why I chose it. Until then, thank you for reading.