The first week of NOvember 2023 is in the bank for those of us observing Locktober and NOvember (or No Nut November if you prefer) back-to-back.
Because of unforeseen circumstances, I find myself taking part in the 2023 edition of NOvember (also known by many as No Nut November), even though I hadn’t planned to participate this year. Yet after completing Locktober and the first week of this 30-day challenge back-to-back, I am not finding it all that challenging. That’s mostly down to the fact that not having a sexual release just before starting a month long chastity challenge makes the first week much less stressful and frustrating than it would otherwise be. Actually, I feel I’m motoring through NOvember on cruise control and not suffering at all.
The change in keyholders is also playing a role, I’m sure. It’s hard to say yet how different Michele is than Lucie. It’s only been a week. We’re still feeling one another out and getting acquainted. Michele has teased me a bit, but it’s been nowhere near as intense as the teasing Lucie delivered. She has given me a few assignments, but nothing that has created the type of sustained arousal and frustration Lucie is so supremely capable of. But no complaints. I am having fun interacting with Michele and never expected her or anyone else to be Lucie’s equal.
My arrangement with Michele at the moment is month-to-month. But I’m looking to forge a permanent keyholder arrangement and she has already told me she wants the same thing. So, I’m hopeful things gel and we establish some chemistry by the end of our first month together. I would rather not be looking for another new keyholder in December. But only time will tell.
Update on My NOvember Side Gig
Turns out, the Dominatrix I mentioned in the last post, Charlotte Douleur, offering the 5-day, mid-NOvember opportunity isn’t supervising the week of chastity training after all. But she is offering the week of training under the auspices of her House of Douleur. Instead, Adreena Winters, celebrated cuckoldress and self-identified “size queen” is doing the training. Winters, a British erotic content creator and model, names the hardcore genre of adult entertainment as the passion she loves, especially interracial hardcore. Winters explains her preference [for cock size] “is over 8 inches of length and at least 6 inches of girth,” noting that is well above average. Considering men with a penis size smaller than her preference physically inadequate and incapable of satisfying her, Winters favorite solution for men with what she considers inadequate dicks is to lock them in chastity. After learning that Winters enjoys humiliating men with “little dicks” with dick ratings and small penis humiliation (SPH), I had to wonder what I’d got myself into. Cuckolding? Dick ratings? SPH? None of those are my thing. But I didn’t want to bail on the challenge. Doing that I figured would disqualify me from taking part in future Charlotte
Douleur challenges. I didn’t want that. So, I thought I’d go with it and see how things went. And since taking part is free, what did I have to lose?
Day 1 was easy enough. Here was the task. Freeze one key in a bottle of water. Seal the emergency key in an envelope and sign your name on the flap to prevent cheating. Put on the cage and lock up. Participants were required to post a photo of the key in the bottle frozen in ice on X (formerly Twitter), and were “allowed” to post a proof of locked photo to Adreena Winters’ Only Fans or Loyal Fans account. But, of course, a tip was required to do that.
Maybe the challenge wasn’t free after all? Not really. Maybe it was designed to produce tip income for Winters. Since I’m not cheap, sort of, I did post my proof photo on her LF account. I gave the minimum tip along with paying the required 50 cent DM fee. No problem. I’ve carried a balance on LF for ages since the time almost two years ago when I was investigating whether you could find a legit pro keyholder on the fan sites. After learning, you can’t, I didn’t go back to LF and abandoned the balance. You really can’t find a keyholder on those sites unless you’re willing to endure continuous pressure to buy video clips, give tips above and beyond whatever keyholding tribute you agreed to, or to buy things for them off their over-priced gift registry. Not saying there are no legit pro dommes on the fans sites. It’s just the payout models the fan sites use. These women get 70-80% of the monthly subscription fees when people subscribe, but that doesn’t amount to enough money to entice anyone to create a fan site page. They make their real money from upselling and these women upsell like car salesmen. If you’re unwilling to pay for the extras, they will quickly label you a cheap time waster and you won’t get any further attention from them. So, yeah, using money I’d already spent by making a deposit to my account and wasn’t getting back anyway, I tipped and paid the DM fee.
Actually, given the small tip, it surprised me when Winters replied. Yep, you probably guessed it. She replied with a SPH comment. I knew enough about her, that came as no surprise. I’m not into SPH because it does nothing for me. I have no emotional response to it, neither negatively nor positively. It doesn’t arouse me but it also doesn’t hurt my feelings. So, no worries. I thanked her for replying and acknowledging the photo and moved on. Then, to my surprise, she replied again almost immediately. Winters’ said since I was definitely on the small end of the scale, I really should being paying her monthly “small dick” tax. I had to laugh at that for two reasons.
First, haven’t we small to average guys suffered enough? Haven’t we felt insecure about our penis size our entire life? The guys with the porn star size schlongs that Winters prefers didn’t get their big cocks at the gym doing penis presses or curls. They simply got lucky with the genetic lottery. If anyone should be paying a tax it’s those guys who nature blessed with way more than most women need or want. Let them pay a “more than needed” tax.
The other reason I laughed was because Winters’ remark reminded me of an old joke I heard back in my military days. Guys, when talking about size queens like Winters who must have 8 plus inches in length and 6 inches in girth to “feel stretched” sufficiently use to say this. “I had to strap a board to my ass to keep from falling in when I had sex with her.” *snicker* Frankly, tight vaginas have always been my preference and for that reason sex with size queens has never interested me. From my perspective, the joke is on Winters, not me.
Wrapping up my first day experience with the the “free” 5-day challenge, it left me less than impressed. But I’ll give it another go this morning. What the hell? I still have money left in that LF balance to spend so another minimum tip won’t kill me. And trust me, so far, the 5-day challenge experience hasn’t been worth more than the minimum.