31 Days of Chastity Meme Day 19: Life Changing

I’ve written at length previously about how I believe practicing chastity and the associated semen retention has allowed me to learn to put my sexual energy into other things besides getting off and changed my life for the better. I believe this has been extremely beneficial in enhancing my quality of life by helping me become more creative and productive. But as life changing as that has been, I think the way chastity has altered my perspective of women has been the most unexpected and transformational.

My parents raised me to treat women with respect. That probably explains why my closest friends have always been women, because I believe women sense that. The naturally intuitive creatures they are, I think women easily differentiate between guys who see them as people first rather than just sexualized objects useful for satisfying male desire. But chastity has given me an even deeper appreciation for women, especially dominant women.

The more you learn about women, the more you understand that from a scientific standpoint, women are superior to men in many ways. Women have a higher pain tolerance. They live longer because they have stronger immune systems that work more efficiently because they have two complete X chromosomes. Women are better at multitasking and IQ testing suggests women are smarter than men. Women are more in touch with their bodies and emotions than men. They are less aggressive and less violent than men. More and more women are figuring out the power they possess and exercising it by taking control of their relationships.

None of that means either gender is superior to the other. No matter how you look it at, men and women need each other. The species cannot survive without both. Both genders offer necessary things essential to human survival. Women and men are of equal value and I don’t think that’s debatable. However, the strengths that women bring to the table, I believe, make them the logical choice as the leaders in relationships. And this realization, produced by my experience of the chastity lifestyle, is why I appreciate women now more than ever.

In times past, society viewed the idea of a male submitting to a female as being “pussy whipped.” Yet survey after survey has shown that there are vast numbers of men who not only often fantasize about female domination but actually desire it. The numbers are incredibly high, higher than you might even imagine. An entire femdom porn industry has sprung from it. Society conditioned women to be submissive to men for centuries. But that is now changing with women having taken massive steps towards becoming the equals to men in the eyes of society. Just as women becoming more independent and empowered have become normalized, I think it is only a matter of time before the female led relationship also becomes the norm.

The world has long catered to male sexual desire, which explains why society has objectified women in everything from advertising to porn. We see everywhere. But more women are learning just how easily they can manipulate men by using their male sexual desire against them. And that’s where chastity comes in. Once you experience a woman locking your penis in a chastity device and assuming complete control over your access to sexual pleasure, that all changes. You soon understand that female desire is just as important as male desire and men must learn to cater to it.

Tomorrow, the discussion on 31 Days of Chastity Day 20 will focus on this prompt:

What tips and advice would you give to someone you had just recently become interested in Chastity and a Chastity Lifestyle?