Here we are on 31 Days of Chastity Meme Day 25 with only one week to go as we hurtle towards the end of Locktober 2023. Today’s discussion centers on openness about chastity.
How open are you about your chastity and being locked up?
I have curated this blog dedicated to chastity for many years, have written books about the practice of chastity, and have been an enthusiastic practitioner of chastity for years. A part of my passion for chastity is sharing it with others and encouraging others to try it. But despite all that, I can’t claim I am truly open about chastity and about spending most of my days and nights for the past four years locked in a chastity device.
None of even my closest vanilla friends, work colleagues, or family members know I am nearly always wearing a chastity device locked on my genitals. I don’t hide it because I am ashamed of my desire to wear chastity devices and to have a dominant woman imposing orgasm control and denial on me. What explains my lack of transparency with those outside the chastity community is the vast majority of people I know best and have close relationships with would feel extreme discomfort if I told them I enjoy wearing chastity devices. They simply wouldn’t understand it, and even if they were kind enough not to express their overt disgust, I’m sure they could not hide their disapproval.
Frankly, I feel confident the vast majority of guys who enjoy wearing chastity devices and engaging in orgasm denial shield this part of their lives from their real life associates and family members, just as I do. It seems people are just too willing to judge others who engage in something they find weird or perverted and who among us needs that? For that reason, as I once mentioned before, it seems most of us chastity enthusiasts remain “in the closet” unless we’re among our people.
I often wish it didn’t have to be this way and hope someday that male chastity will be so mainstream that none of us have to hide our enjoyment of it. But today is not that day. And so, my openness about chastity and being locked is limited to online interactions for now.
In tomorrow’s post, 31 Days of Chastity Meme Day 26, I’ll be talking about chastity release management as I respond to this prompt:
How does your keyholder manage your releases? Tell us about the schedule your keyholder uses. For example, are you locked for a set number of days or weeks? For a month or longer? Or does your keyholder manage your releases on an indefinite schedule?
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